Molier
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This is a fast changing world when human mind are conditioned to believe things which they see, as if the mind is designed for ideas that suits the maximum dividend one dares from it, leaving aside the basis on which it is built.
Ultimately, it does not have a strong foothold, it's a case when any of your established beliefs or dogmas which one hold closely are questioned. We tend to be apprehensive, withdrawing our self more into the shell, no matter how faulty and bad side effects it creates. One need to see at it from a broader perspective like a viewer who views the mountain through the window sitting far away can see a portion of the sky, but the person who goes near the window has a clearer picture and can visualize to the maximum; there is a cultural and sociological difference between the west and the east too, that's evident very much from television.
Today children has access to it, are exposed to various sorts of lifestyle. Depending on the cultural background, we've to work and make them realize that whatever they see is not a part of our usual way of life, could be beneficial rather than staying quiet without giving any advice which will prove disastrous. The human life is governed by many factors. A person living in Siberia has to be accustomed to the cold, so to the person living in Africa to the heat. Culture is a relative term, it changes over distance, the way you live is different but the basic human emotion is the same, needs are inevitable. Difference is, we expect them at our disposal.
To satisfy the needs, one work and education is mandatory from this customer driven point of view. To have a meaningful life, rather we should focus on our energy on personal growth and find a path to peace. Is it because the peer groups are or does he really have the zeal to do? We are often guided by illusion which is quite a far reality, as life goes on, we simply live on and one day fade away just like this. Your time here is very precious, once breath stops flowing through the nostril, the body has to give it back to where it belongs. It will be a waste of time to run after something which won't give you satisfaction after you possess. It's better to find out the meaning of life and your purpose here.
We human beings are lured by luxury and desire, longing which your eyes crave for subduing your inner desire always a material wealth isn't bad. But the point is how one reaches it and how he utilize his wealth is considered, in search of wealth, many lives are shattered in between, families broken and lives lost. Is it the requisite to happiness is wealth! Sadly, it is not. Let it be a worker who earns a small amount everyday and loves the job he does, he is the richest. Two persons may view the same thing differently, opinion varies and what's best is to be taken, suddenly you wouldn't realize your purpose.
Having a free spirited gives an extra edge in today's world of numerous religions, ideas and fame hungry individuals. One really need to thank is, are they propagating something false as virtue in the name of morality. Every individual yearns to have more than the others, to pick up mileage for his benefit. He misuses the trust of his fellow beings. This is a dangerous sign of desire, to acquisition which leads to animosity we are so attached to this worldly thing, that we've forgotten to find peace. "Peace is not found always somewhere in the quiet jungle, you'll need to channelize your their being properly and give priority to what matter most. Easier said than done, next time if someone hits your car from the back, instead of bashing him black and blue, try and go to see if anyone is hurt or not. This may seem ridiculous after all, we are all money oriented. But the good nature you show will be embedded in the person who receives and they will take it with responsibility. Human beings are complex creatures, the mind, a complex network of nervous so is the evolution a complicated theory.
Why does a child smile at you when you smile? Does the child know you? No, not at all. It's because you gave some effort to smile, the child knows that someone is smiling and gives back a smile. Amazing, but true. If we say in terms of vibration, when you give the positive energy, the child receives it and returns.
In this fast age, we go so fast that we miss out on so many wonderful things life provides to us. We are so accustomed to look for big things. Slower down your pace and look at things around you, you see something? Be thankful for your eyes that you see, listen to sounds you hear, feel the air that blow gently on you, you see misery, see festivals and nature around you, its life and think for a little while, where do I fit in? Maybe you are married, have children and a very loving spouse. Just take time to tell your spouse how beautiful/handsome she/he is. "She/he will be flattered!". Even she/he may smile showing all her/his gums and white hair, that smile has its permanent place in her/his heart. We complain about everything that doesn't fit our liking, a grey hair appeared on the head so the person worried instead think of a cancer patient who's done chemotherapy and has lost all the hair when you have it. Be satisfied with that. Try spending time with your close ones and share your happiness, sadness to them instead of quarrelling and remorse. But we never realize it. We may realize this when we come to know the end of one's life. Wouldn't it be too late? Because we never know how long we are to live.
"The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep."
The rider rides his horse far away in the snowy winter like a person who comes out on one very cold evening. His will can never succumb to the cold. He was on the horseback thinking and enjoying the beautiful evening. It was a perfect moment of serene surrounding with tall dark trees covered with white flakes and a sweet river flowing sound by it. He remained there not wanting to leave but he had to go as he had promises to keep, to fulfill.
